A note...

Posted by Crystal

After reading from Love Languages of Children, I figured that based on all the little love notes and messages my children give me that it's a pretty good indication that is how I can show love to them. So last week I wrote each of them a letter about how special they are. I taped it to their doors for them to find. They loved it so much that they are still taped to their door... and this is what I got today... taped to my door of course. Hope you can read it.

Made me smile and cry all at the same time!

Here's Madi cheering at the basketball game. Funny, 15 years ago I would have said, "My daughters will be cheered for, not a cheerleader!" Not that I had anything against cheerleaders, I just was so narrow minded that my offspring would be different and want to do different things than me! I mean, come on! But life has a way of removing your blinders that you place on your eyes. Just goes to show we can never put them in a "box"! And I know a few former cheerleaders (wink) that have helped me see how wrong my thinking really was.






And today as I was putting fresh sheets (right out of the dryer, mmmm) on my bed, I caught myself smiling as I was thinking about climbing into it tonight. Man it looks good to me, especially after shoving snow today! Doesn't it look comfy?


And last but not least, snow pictures from yesterday's blizzard. Praying for more tonight :)

More Smiling...

Posted by Crystal

  • the word "clearance"
  • waking up from a long nap
  • the smell of warm biscuits or choc. chip cookies
  • making over a room in my house
  • receiving a card in the mail
  • getting a run in before dinner
  • a warm, cozy fire
  • discussing faith with someone
  • finding a purse or pair of shoes that you forgot about
  • getting a new pair of shoes or purse (of course)
  • an organized closet
  • having our taxes done (don't I wish)
  • refund checks
  • the way my husband laughs at himself
  • my children's scent fresh out of the tub
  • cuddling in my PJs
  • a great ending to a movie
  • my "softy" on our blanket
  • when Sheriff finally calms down and walks WITH me

More...

Posted by Crystal

Short one tonight... Couldn't help but show this off! This is BJ and Piper last night. After much coaxing on BJ's part, she finally got up in his lap for a little snuggle time and story. I think he has a soft spot for little blondies.


Reading with expression...
My little pony did what??????
I love this one!

Here We Go...

Posted by Crystal

I just got back from a wonderful weekend with my dear friend Brenda and I had some time to consider my list while on the plane, relaxing near her pool and while getting my HOUR AND A HALF MASSAGE!!! (Let's just say she pampered me in between the great conversations and girl time) I don't think there will be any order to this... how can there be?
Today I was inspired by a few people (Thank you Cassandra at Daisy Bucket!) and my creative side of the brain started taking over. This hasn't happened to me in a few years, literally. I was beginning to think I'd never get the crafting bug again. But tonight after an hour of fun I turned out these babies and I realized that finishing a creative project has always been something that makes me smile.







So what are they? The idea started as a need for some type of jewelry organizer that I could hang in my vanity area where I get ready. It's peg board and I bought some 's' hooks to poke through so my necklaces and bracelets can hang on the boards. The flower containers are for my earrings. I couldn't think of how to keep them visual to me and these bead containers came to mind. I'm going to attach them to the walls around these boards. The paper theme and board was all Cassandra's idea. I loved it!

But on with my list... here are just a few of the things that bring a smile to my face
  • when I see a cracked cover on my Bible and consider the impact that has had on my life


  • witnessing an embrace between my children (that was not forced)


  • sharing an amazing sunset with my family


  • getting "Mommy, will you sing to me tonight?" as I'm tucking them in


  • the light in my students' eyes when they get it, know it and then demonstrate it


  • My mom's voice


  • memories of my sister Patty's practical jokes


  • good friends that have seen you at your worst and still love you and except you


  • the smell of "Love Spell" lotion


  • laundry done, folded and put away


  • when my man sees something that I need and takes care of it (which he's been doing a great job of lately!)


  • being able to shop and wonder aimlessly with no time frame or agenda to rush me


  • watching any animal play


  • looking through old pictures


  • an unexpected phone call from a friend just when I need it the most


  • that BJ and I can't stand still when we worship


  • Madi's cackle as it erupts from somewhere in the house


  • A made up song from Morgan


  • DJ's dimples


  • Shannon's facial expressions


  • when BJ opens a door for me


  • when one of my children reach for my hand


  • listening to a child pray


  • how DJ giggles when he gets into bed because he's so excited to go to sleep


  • when a friend is not ashamed to say "I love you"


  • seeing my children give


  • hearing of a friend's success


  • watching someone grow in Christ


  • a good conversation over a decaf toffee nut mocha


  • joining a very familiar, but new family at New Hope


  • still getting my Mila hugs (at Walmart)


  • when BJ does the dishes


  • the endorphin high during and after a 3 mile run


  • when my children ask me to play with them


  • love notes left on my pillow


  • a clean vehicle with an air freshener smell


  • making new friends and the possibility of a long journey together


  • a stable, joyful Christian for childcare


  • a running partner with the same pace as me (or so she says)

More to come in the future! Here's to all of you that bring a smile to my face- Love you




Things that make me smile...

Posted by Crystal

Last month BJ and I had a deal for our "renewal"anniversary that we had to make or create our presents for each other. It was hard for me to think of something that I could make that my man would actually enjoy. My heart was leaning toward a mushy list of things I love about him and for weeks before hand I was mentally compiling a list in my mind. Then it came down to a day or two before and I tried to imagine what he'd think or how he would react if I handed him a paper list. Yes... he would smile big, read with excitement and tell me all the right words but was this my kind of love language or his? I think you know the answer to that.

So instead I thought I'd make him a soundtrack of the newest Tobymac releases which he loves. I went to Tobymac's website and found that he's on tour and actually coming to the Tri-Cities in Feb! Ok, I knew this would send him through the roof! So I had to buy the tickets for his gift. How did I get around the deal we made? Well, Ticketmaster has this wonderful option of printing your own tickets for the concert and that clearly falls under the rules of "making or creating" my gift. (with the help of the printer) I know we're going to have a blast since after getting them we found out we'll be sitting with our Toby friends!!!! The kids are bummed because they don't get to go and show their moves they've perfected with Daddy in the living room.

Yes, BJ did fudge a little on the deal too. He took me out to dinner and I came home to a dark and quiet house. He excused himself to the back porch which left me very curious! He came back in and led me out to a lit fire pit and two chairs. (I've been wanting a fire pit since forever!) And my romantic man sat me down and pulled out of his jacket a piece of paper. He began to read to me a poem about us, starting with the first day we met through each big up and down in our life, each baby... the good times and even the trauma... up until that very moment beside the fire.

He makes me smile everyday, even through gritted teeth at times, but non the less. I promised to be with this man forever- that makes me smile. Funny how that all worked out isn't it. How he's the one with the words on paper. So with that said, I'm going to go back to my original plan and start making a list for myself. I'm going to start posting things that make me smile. My next post will be the start and I'll just continue to add to it as I post randomly. It's like finally doing something you've had on your "to do" list for over a month... Only this list isn't just for my man... it's for me. I need to release all these things in my heart that I'm so thankful for and happy about. Hope the next few posts don't bore you!

Introducing a new blogger!

Posted by Crystal

Remember my post on my good friend in Las Vegas? Well she's a part of the blog world now! Please visit Brenda and make her feel welcome.

Brenda, I'm so excited you're doing this! and looking forward to our weekend! Love ya!

Bubble Fun!

Posted by Crystal

One thing my kids absolutely love?



BUBBLES!

They beg to take a bubble bath in our jetted tub since it creates a wealth of suds to become bubble pirates, bubble princesses, Santa... anything! BJ took on the task tonight and captured some cute pics. What a man! I heard Madi whisper to Morgan, "He's the best daddy ever!" She didn't know I overheard.

















I've taken on a couple new books that I'm really trying to absorb. Parenting By the Spirit and Five Love Lanuages of Children. Gosh, I have so much to learn! I especially get into the Love Languages because I find it so interesting in how to discover how each one of my children express love and feel love from me. It's also cool to learn what I can be doing to communicate my love down deep in their spirit. It all made me pause tonight while putting each one to bed and I just soaked up the moment with them individually. I get so trapped in my chains of temper and impatience then guilt that goes with it (and I know I desperately need to work on that! ) I am so glad our Father in heaven doesn't struggle with these issues! I'm leaning on Him to help change me from within to be a better Mommy. After all, what other job, duty or responsibility will matter as greatly as what He's given me in these 3 blessings I call my own?


That's just where I am tonight as I post. Random as it might seem, it's what's on my mind lately. How can I love them more?



Happy New Year to all!
2008... Won't it be grrrrrrreat! (Corny , I know)